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Jessica wrote: I’ve heard a lot about “sand ceremonies” but have not seen one done. How does that work? There are likely many approaches to a sand ceremony. The way I suggest it be presented is quite similar to a … Continue reading →

Amy says, “We were married in a civil ceremony and now we want to have a real wedding. Can we do that?” While you will not be able to change the date you were legally married, consider the following… 1. … Continue reading →

Sylvia asked, “We are thinking about not having a receiving line after the wedding is over and [instead] coming back down the aisle to dismiss everyone. Does that seem like a better idea?” I have officiated weddings where couples chose … Continue reading →

Occasionally I will arrive at a wedding site I have not previously seen. This is rare, but happens. Today’s wedding was located at a place called Central Park West – The Shelter. It’s part of the Oak Brook Park District. … Continue reading →

Kristen says, “I would like the wedding and reception in one location, but mom doesn’t want a ‘banquet hall wedding’. Can you help me?” It would not be wise of me to get between you and your mom. I agree … Continue reading →

From Stacy, “We are looking into unity options for our ceremony that are different than the usual unity candle or sand ceremony. Not that there is anything wrong with them, we just want something a little different. Any suggestions would … Continue reading →

Angela asked, “Bill and I really love nature. We would like to plan a wedding in an outdoor setting. Any suggestions?” Because you identify yourselves as nature lovers, I assume you are looking for an outdoor setting that offers more … Continue reading →

Mandy asked, “What is the strangest thing you have seen at a wedding?” Well, that’s a question I had think about for some time. Looking back at the last 1000 or so weddings, I can’t think of anything that I … Continue reading →